TIL #7 – From ballerina to couch potato

In my last email I showed you two photos of Blondie, taken two years apart. In the first she walks downhill, all her weight on her shoulders. In the second she carries herself beautifully. Last week I attended Anja Beran’s 2026 classical dressage workshop, and in one of the riding demonstrations, there they were. Both … Read more

The Grown-ups keep talking

Dear friend, I’ve set up this space on my website so we have somewhere of our own to keep working together. I hope this virtual training barn can be a place where you keep progressing towards your training goals, deepen your relationship with your horses, and carry forward the legacy Alex left us. There’s no … Read more

TIL#6 – You ride the horse you have today

I was watching the video of today’s ride. We’re working on transitions from walk to trot, and I spend a long time in the walk before I ask. Getting her balance right first, so the trot has something to start from. And it struck me: how beautiful her walk has become. Look at her front … Read more

Everything Is Connected to Everything Else

Alexandra Kurland is gone. I have written that sentence several times now and it still doesn’t look like anything that could be true. I suspect many of you have been doing the same thing this week — starting something, stopping, not knowing quite where to put any of it. We had a name for the … Read more